Do you ever have that little voice in your head pop up and say things like:

“What do you think you are doing?”

“Who do you think you are?”

“You could never accomplish this, because you failed at that.”

Truth is, I do, and I know I am not the only one.  Many entrepreneurs and business leaders I spend time with, share this as well.  We call this voice “imposter syndrome”.  It is the voice and internal feeling you get when you are shooting for a big goal and dream. It is a program that scans your past, searching for all your mistakes, failures, and places you just plain screwed up.  This program picks and chooses these items and brings you back to relive and re-experience them with an attempt to conclude that you are not worthy of current and future success because of your past.

Here are a few tips and things to consider when this voice pops up and you start getting a little imposter syndrome.

1. Find the source of the voice.  Who is really speaking this to you?  Is this a voice from somebody from your past? Maybe somebody who hurt you or didn’t believe in you?  Are you carrying their voice and making it your own?  If so, identify it, capture it and explore it. 
2. Consider the volume of the voice. Many times the voices that scream the loudest are not voices of God, voices of the Spirit and voices that want you to win and succeed.  Remember, God’s voice many times is quiet and calm.
3. What was occurring just before these voices started entering your mind that may have triggered this experience?  Example: for me, one of the programs I carry from a young age is that my net worth is equal to my self worth. Any time I see a dip in revenue, profits, and income, this voice and program can be triggered inside me.
4. Who are the people you can be real and vulnerable with to share what you are going through?  It does not have to be a lot of people; having one is amazing!  Make sure if you are experiencing this that you reach out, share what you are going through and get some perspective.
5. If your child or a friend was going through what you are, what would you tell them?  Many times we just need to tell ourselves the same thing that we would tell somebody else we love.

I hope these tips serve you and help you if and when you experience imposter syndrome. 

Below are two stories from a couple of great friends of mine who had very rough and rocky pasts.  On paper, they should not be where they are today. However, they overcame great odds and struggles, and are now doing big things for the world.

Both of these friends, Rick Scadden and Harlee Newman, sat down with me on the Gentle Art of Leadership podcast to share their stories.  Check them out below.

Click here to learn Rick’s story.

Click here to learn Harlee’s story.

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