Gentle Art Of Leadership Podcast - Harlee-Newman

Gentle Art Of Leadership Podcast – Harlee-Newman

Introduction

Harlee Newman is a successful local Northern Colorado business owner. Harlee shares his story of becoming addicted to drugs and alcohol from the early age of 5, and a childhood filled with abuse, violence, gangs and fatherlessness. Harlee ended up in prison with the odds stacked against him. After a drug overdose and near death experience, he finally decided to take control of his story and change it for the better. Harlee shares exactly how he did that, and how he is using his story to encourage resilience and empowerment in others. Harlee’s story is a true testament to the power of God, faith, and dedication to changing his life circumstances. This episode contains explicit language and content.

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Highlights From The Episode

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Thanking viewers and encouraging engagement

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Subscription and sharing reminder

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Introduction and reminiscing about meeting each other

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Talking about working together and initial impressions

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Initial dislike and discussing Spanish coffee

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Unexpected turn of events and friendship

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Reflecting on wild behavior and personal journeys

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Transitioning to working with the podcast host

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The impact of sharing personal story with the team

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Introduction to biker clubs

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Exposure to biker gangs and clubs

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Excelling in school despite home life

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Strict expectations from father

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Moving to Fort Collins after a motorcycle accident

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Finding freedom in football

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Moving to Fort Collins and joining a gang

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Living in a Hispanic neighborhood and facing bullying

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Learning to fight back and joining the gang

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Initiation into the gang at age 13

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Feeling out of place

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Adjusting to a new environment

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Learning to survive and fit in

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Finding acceptance and security

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Proving loyalty and earning acceptance

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The importance of loyalty and integrity

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Joining a new culture for protection

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The use of profanity and expressing oneself

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Living a nonconventional lifestyle

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Overcoming adversity and finding success

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A turning point in my life

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Realizing my purpose

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The importance of being present as a parent

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Reflecting on my parenting mistakes

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Learning from my parents' influence

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Struggling with financial difficulties

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The value of work and independence

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Taking responsibility for my choices

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Overcoming a victim mindset

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A wake-up call from a near-death experience

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Introduction

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Accident and injuries

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Scars and self-perception

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Misunderstanding about "face for radio"

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Realization and personal growth

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Grouchy phase and jiu-jitsu

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Friendship and shared experiences

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Reflecting on anger and progress

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Turning point in life

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Sharing a message of resilience and potential

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Working Hard for Success

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The Importance of Patience

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Advice: Work Hard and Be Dedicated

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Overcoming media and public speaking fears

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Overnight Success Takes Time

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Persistence Despite Doubters

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Taking Risks and Going Against the Norm

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The Connection Between Luck and Hard Work

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The Journey of Self-Improvement

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Resilience and Parallel Journeys

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Introduction

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Positive feedback on the book

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Realization of guidance beyond expectations

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Personal impact of the book

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Reflecting on the experience

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Importance of mindset and perception

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Overcoming personal struggles

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Refusing to let adversity define oneself

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Journey to recovery

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Resilience and finding a way forward

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Introduction to the team discussion

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Recalling the impactful moment

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Discussion about "Whisky at five"

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Reflecting on the conversation with the spouse

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Eight hours of internal struggle

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The battle between the old and new self

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Labeling the old and new selves

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Contemplating ending one's life

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Negative thoughts and self-criticism

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The presence of a quiet and supportive voice

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Overcoming negative beliefs and expectations

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The importance of hard work and getting a job

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Pursuing education and college graduation

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Learning how to learn

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Feeling like a failure

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Overcoming obstacles in education

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Achieving academic success

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Balancing work and fatherhood

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Fighting to pursue desired major

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Learning how to fight smart

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Dealing with insecurities

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Changing the family tree

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Everyone deserves a better life

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Gratitude for what you have

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Celebrating success

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Two knucklehead painters

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Embracing both business and painting

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Keeping true to painting roots

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Favorite color off the wall

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Leaving a message for the world

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What do you want to be remembered for?

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Sharing the written card

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